Alright, here's the deal...
i'm HORRIBLE with explaining the state of their current deals to people, and why their trade was vetoed and needs to be reworked.
I simply can't deal with the excuses people present, and usually, I'm the one who gives in and wind up saying "k shut up I'll put the trade through" instead of telling them to deal with it... or I just wind up offending them.
Would one of you, maybe browntown since I saw you were telling slyder why his trade failed anyway, like to take this "position"?
All you have to do is pm people and explain to them why their trade failed, and how they can rework it.